“Health is the one measure of disease that allows me to follow my main occupations.” (Friedrich Nietzsche) To be healthy and feel good, almost all people seek, but only a (…) Read more
Who is the most important person to whom you should take care of you? YOU! If You care good for you, then you feel good and you do not feel to be alone. Then someone is at home and also allows the child to come out and play with us. Be good to you, care for you!
.Use ideas, as it can be for you, and visualize it again. Just like this example: “It may be easier!” Be open to new pages in life. Listen to always remain stuck in old patterns. Explore new territory, such as this, there should always be easier. Visualize all through the body, the tissue, the cells, your energy body …. until it is shown a new reality and then move on to your staircase.
Listen here to the post:01 – Reiner – The paradox of self and foreign concern
Of course we are not all affected by it, but because of our socio-cultural background, it’s a typical pattern of Western culture. Unless we are egomaniacs, but most of us are not fit into this pattern. Our culture pushes us into a role and requires an excessive attention to third parties and a decreased for us.
There are endless examples, but I would like to pick a typical. What happens to our driving behavior when we have a guest in the vehicle and what is driving our behavior when we are alone in the vehicle. For most people it will not even be noticed, but we change our driving behavior when we carry a third person. Our attention is focused on the fact that the passenger arrives at its destination comfortably. So we choose wisely appropriate driving style. We shall make it breaks or even choose a very beautiful route.
Very different if we drive without passengers. How we are doing in the travel time is usually not as important. We are somehow distracted or we confess rubbed of feelings with which we are engaged. Typical is the slightly aggressive driving style, if we have an appointment or are pressed for time. Coupled with poor time management is a common phenomenon to be observed. There are people who even put their lives at risk in order to keep an appointment.
But the loss of self-care is of great concern, not only to ourselves. We are role models for others, and especially for our children. Children see, my father, my mother can not look good for themselves. And they learn this behavior and accept it. But the only concern for us even can bridge up to us in the here and now. Which brings us to the next paradox is: The Zeitparadox. Why have children. Yet all the time and we have the feeling that time is running faster
Let’s start with a generous helping of self-care. Let’s look instead at the clock or the calendar times to the inside: How are we now and what it would do us good? And then we can decide in our adult I like right now, the criteria are. So we make between the social requirements and the needs of her own good balance and always find out more of what we do really well. Tuen you look good!
The massage [masa ː ʒə] (from French masser “massage” from arab “touch, touch” مس. Μάσσω Greek or “chew, knead”) is used for mechanical manipulation of skin, connective tissue and muscles (…) Read more